“Everything in life is connected somehow. You may have to dig deep to find it but its there. Everything is the same even though it’s different. Somehow everything connects back with your life. The faces in certain places may be different, but the situations are the same. Irony is a hidden factor that creeps around us in life, letting its presence felt only after it has left. Picture back to a year ago and the situation you were in. Look at how things are different yet somehow everything it still in some way cognate. Everything connects together to form the balance of life, to maintain structure. Change is and always will be inevitable, but everything is relative, and all the moments and times in your life will come back around again, you just might find yourself on the other side of the coin. Things are always changing, as fast as everything stays the same.”
You wake up and a day has passed. You wake up and a year has passed. You wake up and a decade has passed. Experiences in life have caused you to become the person you are. Day to day a positive light but at night, in yours dreams, a bit darker than the usual person. Why? Because of your most enduring flaw that hides behind your eyes everyday……forgiveness and resistance to change.
It’s something you lack. It’s a defense mechanism we understand, it’s something gained due to a survival technique as a child but you’re not a child anymore. You’re an adult, by the technical sense, your old enough to know right from wrong and your old enough to accept reality for what it is. We live in this crazy, unmistakably chaotic heartbreakingly beautiful world. We are let down every day by someone or something. People’s words mar our minds, people’s actions strike our hearts, but what we forget more than anything is that people are imperfect. Never in the world has there been a word spoken by an ideal man or woman.
We sometimes rely on the people closest to us, to never damage us mentally, but they sometimes do. People say and do things to each other all the time that may not be the best or most genuine things, but we tend to focus more or the blunders of others…..than ourselves.
The very life we live, the very path we take, the very idea of living is all made important by the people we share our memories with. It may sound cliché, it may sound mundane, and it’s been said. Which is the saddest human fallacy, neglect. We neglect legitimate advice from the learned; the philosophers the teachers of time because we are too busy counting the holes in the wall. Too busy complaining about our misgivings. And although cliché……in truth people are our most beautiful memories. More than anything you have to learn that …..change….more than anything is absolutely necessary. No one can expect to believe the same exact things, and speak the same exact arguments, and live the same exact experiences for the entire duration of their stay here. Life is about change, and the people that embrace it will be more fulfilled by it.
People make mistakes, although your heart may hurt, and you may go over someone’s actions 500 times in your head, and you may listen to the same song to remind you of it every day for a year, or you fight about the same thing over…..and over….and over. Nothing will ever change unless …..You let it. Unless you forgive and forget, and move on. Change is necessary. Change is good. Sure you may never ever know the answer to the endless questions that saunter through your thoughts but once you acknowledge that change is inevitable you will be fine. You will live……better. So open your eyes, forgive, don’t resent, and don’t analyze………. Give your lungs some air.
Every moment you waste reliving the past, re-living pain …..Its self deprecating. It won’t get you anywhere. You won’t learn anything from it……except one day you will wake up. You will think to yourself exactly what I have stated here, you will realize how much time you have wasted worrying, how many tears have fallen in vain, how many moments you have shattered by a pessimistic view and you will regret being so inadaptable to change………and you say “fuck it…..it’s not worth it, what am I doing to myself.”
And you’ll move on…….I will………..
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